
十一、分岔 (序)117Please respect copyright.PENANAE1XQ2tDWyQ
作家鄭梓靈在《自你以後學懂了誰值得》裡,117Please respect copyright.PENANA1GplF8corm
對「出軌」兩字有以下的解讀:117Please respect copyright.PENANALBa50NFWwj
「明明有很好的另一半,還想出軌的原因,117Please respect copyright.PENANAj0bn1Kb1Oy
以為自己可以分成兩個人、一個是真實人生 (Real life),117Please respect copyright.PENANAEkKQRHxfsY
一個是幻想人生 (Fantasy life),以為是平行時空、互不抵觸。
她其後提到要經營一段關係必需要:117Please respect copyright.PENANABzrK0s22jQ
「有甜有苦,有種人只想要甜,117Please respect copyright.PENANA4JRf8CiB5z
半分苦頭也不想要」117Please respect copyright.PENANAqoj0XaEpvY
覺得這樣的人很悲哀。
但是,117Please respect copyright.PENANAY2kQeYZ7Y2
這作者恐怕不知道,117Please respect copyright.PENANAwTpUDWIpDR
經營戀愛關係好像近年成行成市的「兩餸飯」店一樣。117Please respect copyright.PENANA5S94nXinso
款式特多、價廉物美,消費者按自己的食量、可負擔的價格,117Please respect copyright.PENANA5UVez2cYJs
去決定究竟選擇「兩餸」、「三餸」或者「四餸」。117Please respect copyright.PENANAmYlztA2UXB
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一個正在食「三餸飯」的顧客,117Please respect copyright.PENANAcjGAM97TQC
又有多少個人會在意那些只叫「兩餸飯」的客人?117Please respect copyright.PENANAyZ5ZyFJu9M
又或者,117Please respect copyright.PENANAlRmQZcov5k
坐在茶記裡享受單單一款小菜的客人,117Please respect copyright.PENANAPoUxWlggSJ
又有多少個會站在道德高地批判那些食多過一款餸菜的客人?117Please respect copyright.PENANAXF6HBGh684
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而且,117Please respect copyright.PENANAi9oBlggO9v
要達成「只想要甜、半分苦頭不想要」的目標很簡單,117Please respect copyright.PENANAYNryrn85xo
揀餸時選擇蕃茄炒蛋、糖醋骨或者菠蘿咕嚕肉便可以。117Please respect copyright.PENANAvEvM94j6a7
叫足這「三個餸」的話,117Please respect copyright.PENANAVuz2Z7myyb
總份量一定會比「兩個餸」少,117Please respect copyright.PENANAZf2vgw7Lky
當然消費者亦可以私下要求「夾多啲」。117Please respect copyright.PENANAhRj9Xra6O9
不論是「只叫一個餸」、「叫兩個餸」或者「叫三個餸」,117Please respect copyright.PENANAo5STsGkkNa
消費者總是有選擇權,不會有抵觸的問題。117Please respect copyright.PENANAarjPBBiHZn
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悲哀?從何說起?
「出軌」的前設是本來只有一條沒有任何分岔口的路軌,117Please respect copyright.PENANAgdbIc9v2yg
你只能依循路徑在上面行走。117Please respect copyright.PENANASUjTL6O2kx
但,117Please respect copyright.PENANAC5YMd1VZEl
如果路軌上有多條分支「岔口」不斷來往其他路軌,117Please respect copyright.PENANAYZoAsg6h2w
當去到某個分岔口後返回原有路軌的話,117Please respect copyright.PENANAyDduscJDtl
某程度上列車根本無出過軌。117Please respect copyright.PENANAfsYY5HNAE9
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「走岔」Vs 「出軌」,117Please respect copyright.PENANA6qgHegHYcb
是兩個完全不同的概念。117Please respect copyright.PENANADck0Xj5Luz
若然用另一個角度解讀「關係」的話,117Please respect copyright.PENANAGrK3xiB0zZ
一個人本身要有足夠的條件,117Please respect copyright.PENANA5rSeWY0hym
才可以令到更多的異性愛上自己。117Please respect copyright.PENANAmm2fSgz8sa
而能夠與不同的人維持到親密關係,117Please respect copyright.PENANARfarN20t6w
本身不是一件容易的事。
蔡裕行早就看得透,117Please respect copyright.PENANAYMP233iCg5
否則不會搭上了昔日的同學、有夫之婦的葉綺淇。117Please respect copyright.PENANAULszM6ievK
他很清楚身體是無法欺騙任何人。117Please respect copyright.PENANA3TjqkFmPOk
除了錢,117Please respect copyright.PENANAh6JtNdXCGB
葉綺淇無法與「禿頭」丈夫葉永和有進一步關係。
葉綺淇是有「出軌」,117Please respect copyright.PENANAOQvnVsWkLC
畢竟她最終的關係都不能重回本來那一條。117Please respect copyright.PENANAzDP3h5NscZ
但她發現前方已經是挖頭巷,117Please respect copyright.PENANAdq4XvGmdFF
再向前走只會是死路一條。
人生的軌跡必定要有分岔口,117Please respect copyright.PENANAFGfedkXGFa
感情更加要預留空間。117Please respect copyright.PENANAkQBT9uUOVq
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《愛情來過半分鐘也沒有》117Please respect copyright.PENANA0CLya2tnfC
戀愛心理,第十一回。117Please respect copyright.PENANAsbld89jCUl