
129Please respect copyright.PENANAXaFha1nniC
究竟一段「理想」的戀愛關係是什麼?129Please respect copyright.PENANAjtOYXRKPWl
香港著名作家鄭梓靈在新作《自你以後學懂了誰值得》裡,129Please respect copyright.PENANAZtRjzgFerP
指出「一個好的伴侶,一定擁有多重身份,129Please respect copyright.PENANADTPAK5uWGI
戀人、知己、人生導師、盟友、玩伴、啦啦隊,129Please respect copyright.PENANAEVHfMzmxad
也就是我們的靈魂伴侶。」129Please respect copyright.PENANA6mh0WeTVrY
129Please respect copyright.PENANAzUwEhG3Zbv
這本新作,129Please respect copyright.PENANAFNO3ifPiUB
正正在2024年書展入手。
簡單而言,129Please respect copyright.PENANAZ6wyQf65oJ
作者的說法是put all eggs in one basket,129Please respect copyright.PENANAeATxt53RqK
只不過不是投資金錢,而是情感。129Please respect copyright.PENANAbsrw0Q6w9D
這個情況要成立的前提,129Please respect copyright.PENANAOiCVGYkto2
就是所謂的「靈魂伴侶」不會有一日見異思遷。
但,129Please respect copyright.PENANAPPwOn5IEHP
作者無提及的是,129Please respect copyright.PENANAmzesdyHqUG
假如這段關係裡雙方其中一方不能維持的話,129Please respect copyright.PENANA0rouMTtaIZ
就等同失掉了這一個好朋友,129Please respect copyright.PENANApJj3mcvuAB
即是失去了作者口中的「知己、人生導師、盟友、玩伴、啦啦隊」。129Please respect copyright.PENANAzfmW1Ko3xy
痛苦的根源,129Please respect copyright.PENANAJWGL7EVvWT
正正就是彼此之間過份坦誠、了解,129Please respect copyright.PENANAaJVbgSkLSP
即「因了解而分開」,129Please respect copyright.PENANAiSg0NWNw7A
因為每一個人總有不想向人提及的黑暗面,129Please respect copyright.PENANAOKzurRfdWY
不欲分享的對象當然包括作者口中的理想伴侶。
「再見亦是朋友」,129Please respect copyright.PENANAvX4VGN0rJu
指的是戀人分了手後仍然可以再做朋友,129Please respect copyright.PENANAhUFmlIn8b9
但「朋友」不是「戀人」分了手後的產物。129Please respect copyright.PENANA9iK41Jzaj8
129Please respect copyright.PENANALPR5mebFV8
若然套用鄭梓靈的說法,129Please respect copyright.PENANA0jl3Mu7CXt
黃慧詩文質彬彬,又有才華,可以與鍾仁宇有很多交流,129Please respect copyright.PENANAgHEA8HQz87
既是知己、又是寫作班同學,129Please respect copyright.PENANAcxJIVdUVpn
鍾仁宇的「靈魂伴侶」可能已經出現,129Please respect copyright.PENANAWWCeoMlmv9
兩人之間的關係突飛猛進是可以預期的。129Please respect copyright.PENANAtVt6IfmY2N
129Please respect copyright.PENANA2pDUmCCA8k
有人話,129Please respect copyright.PENANAnvJEN0l1Om
人到了一定年紀後會發現,129Please respect copyright.PENANAwY8kXoGlDP
需要的只是一個不會離開自己的人,129Please respect copyright.PENANA1MTeJoFDnY
只要溫暖相伴,就可以共度餘生。129Please respect copyright.PENANAkM5vgHVIZO
鍾仁宇很深信這一點,129Please respect copyright.PENANASJlmM3QjL9
不過兩人之間對戀愛的觀念、對將來的想像、對伴侶的忠誠,129Please respect copyright.PENANAkNkP8qAoPb
原來是南轅北轍。129Please respect copyright.PENANAZseMbT5pe1
黃慧詩提供了 角色、故事大綱及詐騙技巧給鍾仁宇,129Please respect copyright.PENANALU0RqIAdng
他慢慢陷入了情感的沼澤裡。
當一個人陷入沼澤後,129Please respect copyright.PENANABHsFSZZubf
愈掙扎的話便愈不能離開,129Please respect copyright.PENANAirDh2FBE3A
最終死在沼澤裡。129Please respect copyright.PENANAwu45tyHZPr
讀者們,129Please respect copyright.PENANA4UHlFAfX3l
如果你人生裡真是有一個好像作家鄭梓靈所說,129Please respect copyright.PENANADxYLMho50u
出現了擁有「多重身份」的靈魂伴侶,129Please respect copyright.PENANAi9CWQgp9kA
你敢相信面前這個是真真正正的他/她嗎?
《愛情來過半分鐘也沒有》129Please respect copyright.PENANAs7fLEz4dza
戀愛心理,第七回。129Please respect copyright.PENANAP9sAVhHpvX