
十一、分岔 (序)117Please respect copyright.PENANAfVmacZHMQV
作家鄭梓靈在《自你以後學懂了誰值得》裡,117Please respect copyright.PENANAWpw2bM6moe
對「出軌」兩字有以下的解讀:117Please respect copyright.PENANA5zkXZ457EB
「明明有很好的另一半,還想出軌的原因,117Please respect copyright.PENANAdJdWCPU02H
以為自己可以分成兩個人、一個是真實人生 (Real life),117Please respect copyright.PENANAuUQ986PyOY
一個是幻想人生 (Fantasy life),以為是平行時空、互不抵觸。
她其後提到要經營一段關係必需要:117Please respect copyright.PENANApat4fmDa6x
「有甜有苦,有種人只想要甜,117Please respect copyright.PENANADQ3hvuUCAQ
半分苦頭也不想要」117Please respect copyright.PENANAfCZSGTCs3I
覺得這樣的人很悲哀。
但是,117Please respect copyright.PENANAuPC9ExTMpf
這作者恐怕不知道,117Please respect copyright.PENANADxFF7rLnj9
經營戀愛關係好像近年成行成市的「兩餸飯」店一樣。117Please respect copyright.PENANAFZQYPU733H
款式特多、價廉物美,消費者按自己的食量、可負擔的價格,117Please respect copyright.PENANAnGnisHggo2
去決定究竟選擇「兩餸」、「三餸」或者「四餸」。117Please respect copyright.PENANAQ8UCYqq10j
117Please respect copyright.PENANAO7nVpiEU8V
一個正在食「三餸飯」的顧客,117Please respect copyright.PENANACZOIoX2Icl
又有多少個人會在意那些只叫「兩餸飯」的客人?117Please respect copyright.PENANAFfvEUwEotc
又或者,117Please respect copyright.PENANAMg1OCiBd9c
坐在茶記裡享受單單一款小菜的客人,117Please respect copyright.PENANANtuHBQqpfk
又有多少個會站在道德高地批判那些食多過一款餸菜的客人?117Please respect copyright.PENANA0hJwogxyrY
117Please respect copyright.PENANAwUHZaoFVz0
而且,117Please respect copyright.PENANAqAwfwIPy5v
要達成「只想要甜、半分苦頭不想要」的目標很簡單,117Please respect copyright.PENANA4YdK6yaGEF
揀餸時選擇蕃茄炒蛋、糖醋骨或者菠蘿咕嚕肉便可以。117Please respect copyright.PENANAEA3fbWn3gY
叫足這「三個餸」的話,117Please respect copyright.PENANABDiCqKARuP
總份量一定會比「兩個餸」少,117Please respect copyright.PENANA8IsDRvMAtf
當然消費者亦可以私下要求「夾多啲」。117Please respect copyright.PENANAdvAyt2DAfk
不論是「只叫一個餸」、「叫兩個餸」或者「叫三個餸」,117Please respect copyright.PENANAjCXu9bfneh
消費者總是有選擇權,不會有抵觸的問題。117Please respect copyright.PENANALVqEVw8AId
117Please respect copyright.PENANArNQ4Fvg7Ta
悲哀?從何說起?
「出軌」的前設是本來只有一條沒有任何分岔口的路軌,117Please respect copyright.PENANAnE20CkIObY
你只能依循路徑在上面行走。117Please respect copyright.PENANAPkVVJDAiQB
但,117Please respect copyright.PENANAPfCn6gOZDT
如果路軌上有多條分支「岔口」不斷來往其他路軌,117Please respect copyright.PENANANjeTUrtE6y
當去到某個分岔口後返回原有路軌的話,117Please respect copyright.PENANAdS0AEd04DF
某程度上列車根本無出過軌。117Please respect copyright.PENANAckyAaw4bK5
117Please respect copyright.PENANAHhWsMZEzqH
「走岔」Vs 「出軌」,117Please respect copyright.PENANAmzRhvfgNML
是兩個完全不同的概念。117Please respect copyright.PENANA26bhTh4BDc
若然用另一個角度解讀「關係」的話,117Please respect copyright.PENANAfGDk9PuBBQ
一個人本身要有足夠的條件,117Please respect copyright.PENANAN05DxHSRjY
才可以令到更多的異性愛上自己。117Please respect copyright.PENANA8sw5eEX0SN
而能夠與不同的人維持到親密關係,117Please respect copyright.PENANAaAwTF4FfmI
本身不是一件容易的事。
蔡裕行早就看得透,117Please respect copyright.PENANAPPO6sHCTnA
否則不會搭上了昔日的同學、有夫之婦的葉綺淇。117Please respect copyright.PENANA9W4gtibm8I
他很清楚身體是無法欺騙任何人。117Please respect copyright.PENANAA9ZOsR5jlA
除了錢,117Please respect copyright.PENANAXugP9XpAhO
葉綺淇無法與「禿頭」丈夫葉永和有進一步關係。
葉綺淇是有「出軌」,117Please respect copyright.PENANAXkxhNPYewZ
畢竟她最終的關係都不能重回本來那一條。117Please respect copyright.PENANAgSOqTsjl0t
但她發現前方已經是挖頭巷,117Please respect copyright.PENANAunLHVR5LM6
再向前走只會是死路一條。
人生的軌跡必定要有分岔口,117Please respect copyright.PENANAEIqaOPwkvX
感情更加要預留空間。117Please respect copyright.PENANAwn8xMatwLS
117Please respect copyright.PENANAh42d1G06Wx
《愛情來過半分鐘也沒有》117Please respect copyright.PENANA3lza62kFH7
戀愛心理,第十一回。117Please respect copyright.PENANA1JwYiyrYga