Dear You Who Said "It's Okay" Too Many Times,
#TheSearchForLove
You thought love meant endurance.54Please respect copyright.PENANAJYFUvC4Axg
That to be chosen, you had to tolerate the things that hurt.54Please respect copyright.PENANA7eaf3XFPr6
That staying quiet, staying soft, staying "understanding"54Please respect copyright.PENANAEBYrqpWoWW
would make them stay too.
You weren't weak for forgiving them.54Please respect copyright.PENANAvB1ChjzbkC
You were just hungry for love.54Please respect copyright.PENANAxxVXmJft7D
And they knew it.54Please respect copyright.PENANAivtuymWEDX
They fed off that hunger,54Please respect copyright.PENANAOZXzfEcT8R
taking more than they ever gave back.
Each time you said "I'm okay,"54Please respect copyright.PENANAe5NqQdB0C1
you swallowed a truth that should've been spoken.54Please respect copyright.PENANAkQ5vtruxos
Each time you forgave without receiving even a hint of remorse,54Please respect copyright.PENANAcEyKa9hVT7
you abandoned a part of yourself54Please respect copyright.PENANATmlIQE35IB
just to be seen, just to be kept.
But real love doesn't ask you to bleed54Please respect copyright.PENANAeSyeAq3qx6
to earn someone's warmth.54Please respect copyright.PENANANRSzYXamnd
It doesn't demand your silence54Please respect copyright.PENANAgLQYUU7VWf
just to keep the peace.
You weren't dramatic.54Please respect copyright.PENANALwoUfDcwTQ
You weren't too much.54Please respect copyright.PENANAUykL7bZSSz
You were just a girl who wanted to be loved the right way54Please respect copyright.PENANAlt372QVHAs
but didn't yet know what the right way looked like.
Let me tell you now:54Please respect copyright.PENANAycD9Bmldt9
Love doesn't make you choose between being respected54Please respect copyright.PENANASF3N1WZdFm
and being held.54Please respect copyright.PENANATExeDjMgpx
It doesn't turn your softness into a weapon against you.54Please respect copyright.PENANAhSdMvoh4n7
It doesn't make you feel guilty for hurting.
You can forgive, yes—54Please respect copyright.PENANADbcrqfzUb5
but not at the cost of losing yourself.
The girl who kept giving chances...54Please respect copyright.PENANA9YzpB1SqWJ
She didn't fail.54Please respect copyright.PENANAiuuyNvTJiX
She just hadn't learned yet54Please respect copyright.PENANAJJXmkLp7Zj
that being loved shouldn't feel like begging.
I see you.54Please respect copyright.PENANAAR4jXpditw
And I want you to know—54Please respect copyright.PENANAIkSbYPX8M1
you never had to try that hard to be worthy.
You always were.
With all the love you deserved back then,54Please respect copyright.PENANARz04LiAveg
—From the version of you who finally learned what love really means
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